Proverbs 1:8–9: My son, hear the instruction of your father, And do not forsake the law of your mother; For they will be a graceful ornament on your head, And chains about your neck.


Insight

God speaks here through the mouth of a parent or teacher, blending paternal tenderness with his divine authority—my son. The command supposes the godly character of parents and recognizes the responsibility of both parents. Children are rational creatures. Instruction, not blind submission, must be taught with persistence. Listen … do not forsake. Timothy was brought up to respect his mother’s teaching. 1

Application

The fear of the Lord is the best place to start when learning important life lessons. That is a holy and reverent fear for your Heavenly Father. Every parent must be in fellowship with the Father if they desire their children to be in a respectful relationship with them. Teaching your children the Word of God is not an option, it is a command. If your teach your children to come to God, they will also desire to come to you. Fathers, show your children how much you love their mother every day.

Motivation

Jesus called them and said, Let the little children come to Me, and do not forbid them; for of such is the kingdom of God. Luke 18:16

If you have a problem with authority, you will have a problem with God. – TWEET IT

Prayer

Father, thank You for being patience with me when I have been stubborn to obey You immediately. As Your child, I need to obey Your instruction. I want to live a life with the grace of God covering my head and my heart. Thank You for correcting me in the power of Your love and truth.


1. Bridges, C. (2001). Proverbs. Wheaton, IL: Crossway Books.

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Tommy Blumberg

Tommy Blumberg was ordained as a Calvary Chapel pastor in 1985, where he served as an assistant pastor at Calvary Fellowship, in Seattle. In 1992, Pastor Tom, his wife Pam, and their three daughters moved to Bellingham and began a Bible study, which led to the founding of Calvary Chapel Northwest. Tom blogs regularly at TommyBlumberg.com.