Proverbs 9:7–9: “He who corrects a scoffer gets shame for himself, and he who rebukes a wicked man only harms himself. Do not correct a scoffer, lest he hate you; Rebuke a wise man, and he will love you. Give instruction to a wise man, and he will be still wiser; Teach a just man, and he will increase in learning.
Insight
Of course, when the simple people accept the invitation, it means leaving the old crowd, and the fools and scoffers will try to talk them into staying (Prov. 9:6–8). Sinners don’t want to be rebuked and reproved, but wise people will accept and benefit from both. Fools, scoffers, and the simple like to have their own way and be told they’re doing fine, but wise men and women want the truth. Teach wise people and they’ll accept the truth and become wiser; try to teach fools and they’ll reject the truth and become even greater fools. 1
Application
In this very independent culture, when we have an opportunity to mature through correction, the unfortunate response is commonly to bail out. It is easier to leave than to deal with your situation. Unfortunately you will never grow up. How do you know if you have a teachable spirit? Is your assessment of most situations often negative? Are you the only one who can do things the right way? Are you a scoffer or a wise person?
Motivation
And this is eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom You have sent. John 17:3
You will quickly discover your heart, when you hear your response to correction. – TWEET IT
Prayer
Father, make me teachable. Please rebuke and correct me whenever necessary.
1. Wiersbe, W. W. (1996). Be Skillful (p. 32). Wheaton, IL: Victor Books.