Matthew 5:31–32: Furthermore it has been said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I tell you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.


In his corrective But I tell you, Jesus narrowed the allowable reasons for justifiable divorce. And even at that, he was not commanding that an adulterous spouse be divorced. He was allowing such recourse for the spouse offended by adultery. Like his Father (Mal. 2), Jesus hates divorce in every instance, but he permits it in extremely narrow circumstances. His will is always reconciliation except in the face of ongoing, unrepentant, adulterous destruction of the marriage covenant. 1

Your Word is Truth

What is the best way to build a marriage? What is the best way to avoid a divorce? How important is learning how to ask for forgiveness and receive forgiveness, in all of life’s relationships? What is the main reason why someone commits adultery?

Bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do. –Colossians 3:13

You Alone are God

Be not fooled. Not all sin is the same, not all consequences are the same. – TWEET IT

Your Will be Done

Lord, thank You for the many warnings about avoiding the dangerous places of sin.


1. Hughes, R. K. (2001). The Sermon on the Mount: The Message of the Kingdom. Wheaton, IL: Crossway Books.

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Tommy Blumberg was ordained as a Calvary Chapel pastor in 1985, where he served as an assistant pastor at Calvary Fellowship, in Seattle. In 1992, Pastor Tom, his wife Pam, and their three daughters moved to Bellingham and began a Bible study, which led to the founding of Calvary Chapel Northwest. Tom blogs regularly at TommyBlumberg.com.